Give other members a chance to know you: what you like to do, where you live, what turns you on. Fill in lots of details so the system can find your match. Describe your perfect mate so she can find you.

Let someone know you're interested in them by sending a kiss. If they kiss you back you'll know it's mutual. Exchanging kisses can be the first step in a lifelong loving relationship.

Place several pictures of yourself that show your many sides and your special interests. Make sure you're in each picture, and that each one tells the members something about you. A picture of you at a family wedding, in front of your home, playing with your pet dog or on vacation might be the one that catches someone's eye and prompts them to take the first step to becoming your life partner.

On AsiaLoveMatch.net you are free to contact any member who is already a Gold Member. At ALM we think that charging you for each person you meet, or for every message you send, is a massive rip-off. You can send messages to all our Gold members who you find interesting. This allows you to take your time getting to know us and that our members are real. And just maybe one of those Gold members is waiting here just for you.

You'll often receive messages or chat invitations from Gold Members. Once someone upgrades to Gold they can message or chat with everyone, so as a Free Member you get to enjoy all the great features of ALM without it costing a dime. Dress your profile up, look your best, and chances are that you'll be hearing from Gold Members who are attracted to you.

Our eMagazine, Blogs and Forum are here to entertain, enlighten and educate, and as a member you're free to not just read them, but to add your own voice in the comments. ALM isn't just a website, it's a community. And you're a member, not just a number.

ALM and CLM are the home of Scammer Prison. Unlike all other dating sites, we don't pretend that scammers don't exist. Scammers are everywhere, but on ALM they aren't here for long. We police our site extensively, and when a Scammer is caught we put them on display n Scammer Prison. If they've been in contact with you, we send you a notice to alert you. At ALM we've got your back!

For a one-time very reasonable fee, everyone can read your messages and you can read theirs. Don't let your perfect match escape you just because she or he hasn't upgraded. You enjoy much more attention from other members when you go Gold, and you'll be able to communicate with those very attractive standard members you've been aching to meet.

As a Gold member there's no need to wait for that special someone to find your kiss or message in their inbox. If you spot the member you've been dreaming about online, even though she or he is a Standard member, with one click of the Chat Invitation button you can be chatting with her or him instantly.

Most of our competitors charge extra for video/audio chat, but because at ALM we believe this feature is essential to member security and enjoyment, we include at no extra cost. On ALM every feature of the website is available for one low fee.

At ALM we're about security, and we introduced the ability to check member IPs to online dating. As a Gold member you can push a button and instantly know the IP location of a member you're chatting with, or where a member whose profile you admire last logged in from. If she (or he) says she's in Bangkok, she's actually in Lagos, Nigeria, you'll be on full alert.

They say that one picture is worth a thousand words, so just think of all you can say in 15 pictures about yourself, your way of life, your special interests and your world.

Gold members are listed on ALM VIP search or browse categories. These are our most popular searches and ranking there ensures you lots of attention from all the other members.